28/4/05 John 15:9-17

John 15:9 "As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love. ¹⁰ If you obey my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have obeyed my Father's commands and remain in his love. ¹¹ I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.( ¹² My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. ¹³ Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends. ¹⁴ You are my friends if you do what I command. ¹⁵ I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master's business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you. ¹⁶ You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit--fruit that will last. Then the Father will give you whatever you ask in my name. ¹⁷ This is my command: Love each other. )

Human beings require friendship. It is hard for us to be totally alone because we are made in the image of God who relates. People have to learn to be friends and grow in their understanding of what it means to be a friend. A true and lasting friendship will involve giving as well as taking. It will involve love, acceptance, commitment and grace. Today's gospel reading is about friendship and commitment.

We might summarise Jesus' teaching in today's gospel by saying, 'Jesus loves his followers and he wants them to share his love with one another.'

Jesus is talking to his disciples the night before he was crucified. He had just washed their dirty feet so they could eat a meal together. He now teaches them in preparation for his crucifixion the next day. These are the last words he will say to them before his death so they are very important.

Jesus starts off by telling the disciples that he loves them. This is a good start for any relationship. The Christian faith is about a relationship, not a religion. A religion is a system of living. But Jesus offers everyone a relationship with God the Father through him.

As Jesus' disciples today we know that he loves us. But how can we know this ?

We know this through his humility. Jesus put others before himself. He did this when he left the power, splendour and glory of heaven for the squalor of a filthy stable to become a defenceless baby. Jesus was humble when he washed the disciples feet earlier that first Maundy Thursday evening. They would have come in to recline and eat, only to find that there was no slave to wash their feet. This job was carried out by the most junior slave so it would have been humiliating for anyone to volunteer to do this. It was tantamount to admitting that you were inferior to everyone else. But Jesus stepped up and washed the disciples feet. He said that he was setting an example of serving others that the disciples would have to imitate.

We also know Jesus loves us because he told the disciples. He told them that he had chosen them, verse 16. Jesus loves his disciples today. He chooses people to follow him today. This is very reassuring. It means that we do not have to earn our relationship with Jesus. We do not have to be good in order earn our way into Jesus' good books. He loved us first.

Good friends know each other so well that they often know the way the other person is thinking. They know their values, their goals, their sense of humour and their motives. We know that Jesus loves us because he reveals himself to his disciples.

Verse 15, 'I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master's business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you.'

Jesus is saying "I am showing you how God the Father and I think. I have revealed to you how I will restore people to a right relationship with God. I have revealed how I want people to live in response to my love and friendship. This will include praying to God the Father. Those prayers will be answered because you know the way that God thinks so you will be asking what he wants." This is why he says, in verse 16, 'Then the Father will give you whatever you ask in my name.'

For some people words are cheap. They may declare that they love someone, yet their actions show that they do not . They are selfish, they hurt the person whom they claim to love. Jesus said that he loves everyone, but he also showed the extent of his love for the world by dying on the cross.

Love has to be given, received, and acted upon. Without action there is little proof that the love has been received. Love is practical. For example, an adult child can show love for his/her parents by caring for them when they become ill or infirm. An older child can show their love for a younger sister by, say, making sure that she is safe at the school they attend and helping her with her homework.

Jesus said that the proof that we have received his love is to love other believers. We know this from 13: 34 "A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. 35 By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another."

The true mark of being a Christian is not a belief in God, in coming to church, in being baptised or confirmed, in reading a Bible, or saying prayers every day, although all of these things are helpful and necessary. Jesus says that the true mark of being a disciple is to love other disciples sacrificially.

Just as a brother and sister are united through their relationship with their parents, so Christians are joined through their relationship with God the Father through God the Son.

True love is sacrificial. It cares more about the one who is loved than the lover. This is the type of love that Jesus calls his disciples to exhibit. 12 'My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you.' A sacrificial, self-giving, humble love. If we have received it, Jesus commands us to show we have received it by doing it.

This must be vitally important because he has already mentioned it in 13:34 and, in our passage today repeats this command in verses 12 & 17.

This love was the thing that distinguished the early church. People joined the church because they found it to be loving and accepting. Full of grace. This is what God wants his church to be like today.

What will happen if we grow and show the love of Jesus ?

10 If you obey my commands, you will remain in my love,

When we follow the ways of Jesus, especially his commands to love, we will continue in our friendship with him. Yet if we do not obey his commands and fail to love other Christians this is a denial of our claim to love God. It will also spoil our friendship with Jesus.

11 I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.

In a television interview the actress Julia Roberts was talking about her latest boyfriend. When she did she described herself as 'having a coat hanger in her mouth' and being 'drunk with joy'. She was drunk with the joy of love from a relationship.

When we follow the way of Jesus and love other Christians we will know his joy in our hearts. We can be drunk with joy in our relationship with God.

We live in a world that is centred on the perceived 'needs' of people which, in truth, are selfish wants. But those who follow their desires and even achieve fame and fortune are often no better or happier because of what they have achieved. Many rich and famous people have died lonely and disappointed. People who have won the lottery or the pools have been equally miserable after their wins.

We can know a joy that surpasses any pleasure that fame and fortune can bring. We can know the joy of knowing Jesus as our friend. The joy of being part of a world wide family joined by the love of Jesus. The joy of seeing Jesus alive in other Christians. The joy of looking forward to an eternity surrounded by God's love. The joy of loving others, and of being loved ourselves.

Dear Lord Jesus,

Thank you that you love me so much that you died on the cross for me.

I am sorry for the times that I have failed to love others in a sacrificial way.

Please forgive me.

Help me to show your love to other people in the power of your Holy Spirit.

Please help our church to be loving, welcoming and accepting.

We ask this for the glory of your name. Amen.